Mindfulness
Mindfulness means maintaining a moment-by-moment awareness of our thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, and surrounding environment, through a gentle, nurturing lens.
Mindfulness also involves acceptance, meaning that we pay attention to our thoughts and feelings without judging them—without believing, for instance, that there’s a “right” or “wrong” way to think or feel in a given moment. When we practice mindfulness, our thoughts tune into what we’re sensing in the present moment rather than rehashing the past or imagining the future.
Though it has its roots in Buddhist meditation, a secular practice of mindfulness has entered the American mainstream in recent years, in part through the work of Jon Kabat-Zinn and his Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) program, which he launched at the University of Massachusetts Medical School in 1979. Since that time, thousands of studies have documented the physical and mental health benefits of mindfulness in general and MBSR in particular, inspiring countless programs to adapt the MBSR model for schools, prisons, hospitals, veterans centers, and beyond.
Common Myths
- Mindfulness is just a relaxation technique
Relaxation can happen, but mindfulness is mainly about self awareness
- Mindfulness means emptying your mind or stopping thoughts
Thoughts will still come. We practice noticing them and gently returning attention.
- If mindfulness works, I will always feel calm.
Mindfulness can help you feel steadier, and it also means turning toward some discomfort and learning to stay with it safely
- I have to sit cross-legged and be spiritual
You can sit on a chair, stand, or walk. Secular mindfulness does not require any belief system.